People always ask me if I hate dating.
I can't bring myself to hate anything that I must do so I choose to love it. Even when it is hard.
A great date makes me think of how it would be so good to do often in a marriage (yes I did this - obviously it does not fix everything but I still recommend it)
Do you date your husband?
Dont you just love a warm summer night?
Ask your husband out
Put on a perfect dress
Go to a lovely outdoor patio (this one had a long green couch facing the sidewalk and street. I could hardly stand it it was so wonderful)
Order the most festive and delicious drinks you can
Sip it and pretend you are far away from home
dont discuss anything that matters too much
dont talk about your children- they are not talking about you
dont discuss the roof that needs fixing, or that problem that wont go away
I promise it will be romantic. I might not fix the roof but it might fix other things...