And for nine months you live with the risk, knowing that
some tiny factor beyond your control, some small "butterfly effect" can end the
life of one or both of the unborn children you have sacrificed so much,
already, to be carrying. Unless you live in one of Canada's major cities, you
will be travelling long distances often, to have your pregnancy monitored. In
my case, every two weeks I travelled two and a half hours to Sudbury, had a
half hour ultrasound, spent fifteen minutes with the OB (who was not a
specialist), then drove two and a half hours back home. Later in the pregnancy,
the trips were once a week this is
expensive and time consuming.
Like most couples in Ontario who have to pay for IVF, I chose
to have multiple embryos transferred. I
had four embryos placed back into my uterus.
FOUR! That's a lot. I could've had quadruplets, or more. But, I had twins. Identical (monozygotic) twins. Which means that only one embryo survived;
and split.
Obviously, I thought that was a brilliant move at the
time. We had spent all the money we
had. They told us our embryos were of
low quality. So, we were easily
convinced to have four "poor quality" embryos placed.
If IVF had been funded, would I have agreed to that? Probably. I really, really wanted to be pregnant. However, if IVF is funded, there will be regulations requiring only one embryo transfer. Is that a good thing? Well, it seems like it is.
The reality is that multiple births have higher risks; the
higher the number of multiples, the higher the risk. Here are some statistics on the risks:
- Overall 15-17% of multiple births result from infertility treatments.
- It is estimated that 60% of triplets, 90% of quadruplets and 99% of quintuplets result from infertility treatments
- Multiple-birth babies represent 2% of all Canadian births but account for 16% of the low birth-weight infant population
- Almost half of all twins are born prematurely and/or have low birth-weight
- Over 90% of triplet, quadruplet and quintuplet babies are born prematurely and/or have low birth-weight.
- Multiple Births are the fastest growing segment of the preterm birth infant population
- Approximately 10% of all prenatal deaths are multiple-birth children
- Multiple-birth children are at a five times greater risk of birth defects and/or disabilities
- Multiple-birth children with special needs require expensive, additional educational support
- Parents of multiple-birth children are at a higher than average risk for drug abuse, alcohol abuse, family violence and divorce
Quebec started funding IVF and their multiple births rates dropped
from 27% to 5%.
Ontario's rate of multiple births is currently 28%. Hmmm....seems like what works in Quebec, would likely work here.
73% of Ontarians believe that Ontario should adopt a policy like Quebec's for funding IVF.
Funding regulated IVF treatments could save the province $400-$550 million dollars in multiple births related costs, according to the Expert Panel on Infertility and Adoption,
Let's step up Ontario! Support funding for IVF. Go to Conceivable Dreams and check out their research and action plan. Follow them on Twitter @OHIP4IVF
Ask your candidate about his/her position on this issue.
This video shows how lucky I am. I know it. Although the girls are fighting a lot lately and wishing to not have to share my affection, "I don't want a sister, I want to be only with you", they have such a great bond.


Oh my god, Erin. That video! The way they look into each others' eyes and stroke their sister's cheek brought tears to my eyes. You are lucky!
Oof. That video just kills me... what wonderful girls they are, Erin! Wow. You are a lucky lady indeed. xox
The video is amazing. My friend has two sets of twins and I'm fascinated watching them although terrified at the thought of having them. Thanks for sharing the risks Erin - I know about them but never think about the worrying WHILE you're pregnant...so true. What a gift....but one that wasn't easy to get to.